The Gift

From thefreedictionary.com, gift is defined as

1. Something that is bestowed voluntarily and without compensation.
2. The act, right, or power of giving.
3. A talent, endowment, aptitude, or inclination.

And from the wikipedia – One of the most famous essays on this subject (Mauss) “focuses on the way that the exchange of objects between groups builds relationships between them. He argued that giving an object creates an inherent obligation on the receiver to reciprocate the gift. The resulting series of exchanges between groups thus provided one of the earliest forms of social solidarity used by humans.”

From this we see an inherent obligation on the receiver – but by definition – no expectations at all on the part of the giver.

What if there is an expectation of reciprocity on the part of the giver – is it still considered a gift? No – technically that is a “barter” or a deal.

I heard a story earlier this week about a remarkable billionaire – John Huntsman. “After seeing a very wealthy colleague who didn't donate much money die, Huntsman had another thought occur to him: There wasn't a dollar in the casket this guy could take with him. From that moment on, he has vowed to die broke and give away every penny of his fortune before he passes on.

John Huntsman started the Huntsman Cancer Institute after going through cancer treatment himself and thinking 'I can do this better'. The result of his vision was a truly out of the ordinary place for those suffering with cancer.” I encourage you to read more of his story here.

With Christmas bills due, and birthdays quickly approaching, I’ve been thinking about my giving lately. Is it really giving if I get my wife a new dishwasher for Christmas and expect to use it or get clean dishes from it? Is it really giving if we have a taco dinner night and expect some form 100s signed? Is it really giving if I give my all for an event and expect even a single “Thank You”?

As we consider our Lenten sacrifice, maybe it is a good time to step back and reflect – “Why am I doing this?”

As Christians we are called to be His apostles and spread a message of selfless love. Our creator endowed us with gifts and does have just one expectation – that we follow his example and give these gifts freely. In the Bible we hear over and over the promise to those who give freely, and the warnings to those who can’t give.

So the next time you look at our Savior hanging on that cross, consider the love, example and perfection of His selfless gift.

And consider your inherent obligation as receiver.

Vivat Jesus!

Jeff